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When Amelia was first admitted to hospital, I didn’t know how much my life was about to change. I was just a dad, suddenly surrounded by machines, unfamiliar faces, and sleepless nights. And while everyone asked about Amelia’s condition, hardly anyone asked if I’d eaten that day.
If you’re reading this, you might be in that situation right now – watching over your child, living hour by hour, unsure how you’ll manage another day. This post is for you. Not from a professional, but from a parent who’s been there.
What You’re Not Prepared For (Emotionally)
Let’s be honest: nothing prepares you for the emotional weight of being in hospital with your child.
- You’ll feel like you need to be strong, but sometimes you’ll fall apart.
- You might eat once a day, and cry in the corridor so your child doesn’t see.
- You will question yourself more times than you can count.
What Actually Helps
Here’s what got me through, and what I wish someone had told me sooner:
- Pack for yourself. Bring snacks, chargers, a toothbrush. When the adrenaline fades, basic comforts matter.
- Ask the nurses. Many wards have access to tea, toast, even charity-run family rooms.
- Write it down. You’ll be tired. Keep a notepad of questions, names, and next steps.
- Take breaks. Even 10 minutes outside helps. You matter too.
- Accept help. Whether it’s an offer of food, a lift, or an emergency grant – take it.
This is exactly why we created Amelia’s Light: to fill the gap no one talks about. Because no parent should have to choose between dinner and being bedside.
You’re Not Alone (Even If It Feels That Way)
Hospital life can make you feel like the world’s moved on without you. But there are people who get it. People like me, and organisations like ours.
We offer small grants to help families afford food, travel, and vital basics during hospital stays.
But more than that, we offer understanding. Compassion. No judgment.
Final Words from a Fellow Parent
If no one’s told you lately, you’re doing enough. Your presence matters.
And no matter how messy, exhausted, or broken you feel right now – you are not alone.
Amelia’s Light exists because families like mine have lived through the very moments you’re in now. And we’re here to say: support is possible. Relief is possible. Hope is possible.
— Steven Hardy
Founder, Amelia’s Light